Comments on built-in birth control: what can you say when a baby dies?

They were here and they will always be here with y...

2010-02-09T23:37:28.194-05:00

They were here and they will always be here with you...
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I came to check out your blog from LFCA & was ...

2010-02-09T22:21:44.577-05:00

I came to check out your blog from LFCA & was so touched, could not help but cry when reading this. Thank you for sharing this post, I'm so sorry for the loss of your precious girls.

You are so right, you didn't get to have them ...

2010-02-08T23:34:47.378-05:00

You are so right, you didn't get to have them but they were here. We had to send that awful message to and I also got back a couple of congrats. I was so angry at those people I wanted to yell and scream cant you read the whole damn thing before you respond. Your congrats just ripped what was left of my heart out of my chest.

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful twins. We lost our precious daughter Cadynce Alice on 10/10.

I am glad that you had at least one person say they wish they could have known them

hugs

Crying as type this...first of all for such a horr...

2010-02-08T15:27:55.540-05:00

Crying as type this...first of all for such a horrid text to have to send. We made three phone calls when Will died and then I sent out a bulk email. Sadly enough, we did not hear back from everyone and I still wonder why that is?

I want so much for people to recognize Will as a 'real baby', too. Your precious twins were and are real babies, let there be no doubt. I love the sentiment, "I wish I would've known them," from your family member. It makes me cry all the more since my response would've been, "I wish so, too."

Thanks for your visit to my blog recently. I'm trying to catch up with my visitors and let them know that I am here for you as well, as we travel this babylost road together.

Eve

This is the single most helpful post I've ever...

2010-02-08T13:27:16.614-05:00

This is the single most helpful post I've ever read about what to say (and sadly, I've read a number). Thanks for sharing this. Yes, of course, they were here.

a beautiful post. I love this line "I didn&...

2010-02-08T02:15:26.465-05:00

a beautiful post.

I love this line

"I didn't get to have them, but lord, they were here."

Wishing you peace (in time...... in time)

Beautiful, sad, and helpful. I wish I had had thes...

2010-02-07T23:49:24.585-05:00

Beautiful, sad, and helpful. I wish I had had these instructions earlier, and yet I hope I never have to put them into practice.

Oh this just makes me so sad for you. So sad. Havi...

2010-02-07T22:04:18.613-05:00

Oh this just makes me so sad for you. So sad. Having watched another friend lose her twin girls at 19 weeks after IVF...talking to her on the phone while she was in the hospital waiting to deliver..I will never ever forget those conversations, that pain, that grief I watched her suffer through from afar. And all I can ever, ever say is I am so sorry. So sorry for your loss. And lord yes, they were here. They were here.

Thank you for this post. I think most people just ...

2010-02-07T08:06:44.265-05:00

Thank you for this post. I think most people just don't know what to say. I wouldn't. I don't. But now I have a better idea.

So true. This is a sad but beautifully written pos...

2010-02-07T06:31:03.229-05:00

So true. This is a sad but beautifully written post. Everything sounds so trite to me, and it's lovely to hear the heartfelt thoughts from your cousin.