tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post3131675892163311815..comments2010-02-16T20:08:27.203-05:00bibchttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13696528943928321710noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-74355802927456007242010-02-16T20:08:27.203-05:002010-02-16T20:08:27.203-05:00Oh Lis. I am just now reading this post. It just breaks my heart--you offering up some peace for the rest of us when you are in such turmoil yourself. I am so glad you are seeing someone to help you through this...there is no way around it, huh, just going through it. I am just so sad for your loss. So, so sad.<br /><br />Thinking of you and wishing I had anything worth offering...but I&#39;m reading/listening.lastchanceivfhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14139576318784337837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-57814833478545922372010-02-15T10:41:09.089-05:002010-02-15T10:41:09.089-05:00PTSD, ABC, BBD, The East Coats Family - Whatever you have I&#39;m here for you baby. Its funny, all growing up you are being taught lessons to prepare you for the real world - well this is the real world,- but its funny I don&#39;t remember the lesson &quot;Watch you daughters die and bounce back in weeks!&quot; I think it might have been an elective freshman year of college. I&#39;m kicking myself in the ass now for not taking it. Like a dumbass I ended up taking &quot;How to score a sexy wife&quot;-(it was a survey course). Anyway hindsight&#39;s 20/20. Loveu miss u -TEEDad Interuptedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01936006900406463327noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-20297301775767371552010-02-14T14:26:27.639-05:002010-02-14T14:26:27.639-05:00I am so sorry for what you&#39;re enduring. I spent some time reading your older posts today, and you have been through so much. I think that talking to someone might help if you are up for it. <br /><br />Thinking of you and your angels.sonjahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17254199098599230245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-91527920211693102002010-02-13T14:13:35.554-05:002010-02-13T14:13:35.554-05:00(((hugs))) I missed the oprah but I wished I would have seen it. Maybe I can hulu or something. <br /><br />also - thank you for adding our button on your sidebar. :)Bonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00840177062465339663noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-61560545747230794552010-02-12T23:12:52.053-05:002010-02-12T23:12:52.053-05:00Kudos to you for taking care of yourself. How could you NOT have PTSD after what you&#39;ve been through? I hope they are able to help you get some rest.Cyndihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15780099929873041448noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-70348332970831731392010-02-12T17:39:26.547-05:002010-02-12T17:39:26.547-05:00I&#39;m sorry you are in such a hard place right now. There are no words that I can offer to comfort you, I realize that. When we are hurting words are just noises anyway. <br />I do think it is positive that you are seeking someone to talk to. It seems to help so many people. You have been through so much, naturally you are hurting beyond measure. <br />I hope you and T get to do something nice for each other this weekend. I know it will be hard but there is so much love between you, focus on that. Sending peace to you.Jennhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05200639221841548302noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-17723261562674004852010-02-12T16:44:13.055-05:002010-02-12T16:44:13.055-05:00love you. you are so brave. i always wanted to grow up and be just like you, and i still do. i know the girls are so proud to have such wonderful parents to look down on from above.kathrynhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10548311760903944369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-49088026657583016792010-02-12T13:09:35.893-05:002010-02-12T13:09:35.893-05:00I just started seeing a counselor myself. I can&#39;t go to sleep because all I can think about is those awful hours between the time they told us we would lose Cadynce and giving birth to her. and how empty i felt and still feel. i hope that seeing someone helps you, i do believe that losses such as we have suffered do truly cause us to suffer PTSD.<br /><br />hugsAllison (Ali)http://www.blogger.com/profile/00731485021895799034noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4287188573376284482.post-55713412769789785212010-02-12T09:57:10.260-05:002010-02-12T09:57:10.260-05:00PTSD after loss is not uncommon; I remember discussing it with the NICU nurses and then researching it afterwards... <br /><br />Thinking of you. This is such a hard time.Michelehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17681333723382119281noreply@blogger.com